How Faith, Style, and Identity Work Together to Transform a Woman’s Life
Becoming HER: The Faith-Driven Identity Shift Every Woman Needs Right Now
Every woman has a version of herself she secretly knows she was called to be. Confident. Whole. Purpose-driven. Aligned with God. Emotionally grounded. Walking in her assignment instead of her fear.
That version is called HER, the healed, extraordinary, resilient woman Holli Tabren teaches about every day on her platform.
“Becoming HER” isn’t a cute phrase or a motivational quote.
It’s a full identity shift…
…a rebirth…
…and a calling.
And today, we’re exploring exactly how women can step into HER, faithfully, emotionally, and practically.
What Does “Becoming HER” Really Mean?
HER stands for:
H – Healed
E – Extraordinary
R – Resilient
Becoming HER isn’t perfection. It’s progression. It’s letting go of who life forced you to become and stepping into who God designed you to be.
Holli’s events, coaching, and content revolve around guiding women through this transformation step by step.
Faith as the Foundation for Becoming HER
Your healing journey without God becomes self-help.
But your healing journey with God becomes rebirth.
According to trusted research from Harvard’s School of Public Health, people with strong spiritual practices experience improved emotional resilience and lower stress
(source: https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/press-releases/spirituality-health-benefits).
This is exactly why Holli incorporates faith into every message she teaches, because true identity is rooted in the One who created it.
The 3 Layers of Becoming HER
1. Emotional Healing
You can’t become HER without releasing old pain.
2. Mental Renewal
Your mind must match the woman you are becoming.
3. Identity Rebuilding
The moment you believe you deserve more, your life starts shifting.
Explore a deeper breakdown here:
hollitabren.com/blog/how-to-rebuild-self-worth
How Style & Fashion Influence Identity
Many women underestimate how style affects confidence.
Through Holli’s Shopify store, Styling Is Necessary, she teaches women to dress like the woman they are becoming, not the woman they are surviving.
Visit the store:
https://stylingisnecessary.com/
Clothing with purpose becomes:
a daily affirmation
a mindset trigger
a symbol of identity
a reminder of who God says you are
This is why HER becomes a lifestyle, not just a mindset.
The Power of Community in Becoming HER
Women rise faster when they rise together.
Holli’s community, online, at events, and through YouTube, is built on transparency, sisterhood, and shared healing.
Join the movement here:
https://www.youtube.com/@becominghollitabren
How to Start Becoming HER Today
Here are real, actionable steps:
Write down who “HER” is for you.
Identify the beliefs that keep you from becoming her.
Join a healing event or coaching program for accountability
Shift your environment, friends, content, conversations.
Dress daily like the woman you see in your spirit.
Say yes when God is calling you higher.
Becoming HER Is a Daily Decision
You don’t become HER in one moment.
You become her every time you choose healing.
Every time you choose God.
Every time you choose yourself.
And if you’re ready to take the next step, start here:
Contact Holli: https://hollitabren.com/contact
Visit her website: https://hollitabren.com
Explore her store: https://stylingisnecessary.com/
